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Tuesday, August 29, 2006

So this sunday my grandma passed away.  Luckily, I was able to make it down to SJ before she passed.  30 min before to be exact... so if you saw a white car going 95 miles an hour down 680 on sunday it was me.  Luckily her immediate family was all around her so we all got to say goodbye in her last minutes.  heh, I've used luckily twice so far so i'll just continue with that theme because i realize how lucky I was to have had a grandma like I did.  She was one of the most vibrant, outspoken, stubborn, loyal people i've ever known in my life and eevn now thinking about her just brings a smile to me face because I just remember her laughing or making some sarcastic comment (you should know that sacrasm runs in my family and we all know where we get it) Even when she was sick she was still the same lady, never lost a bit of that sharpness.  I've been going through some old photo albums because we're making a slideshow for the service on thursday and I can't believe how much she lived.  I mean I only knew her for 26 years and even before that she was riding camels in Egypt, one of the first people to make it to China once it was reopened, going to Russia when it was still the USSR. 

It's funny, people have asked me how i'm doing and sometimes I can almost say i'm not sad just because we're all surrounded by family and have so many memories that we can look back on and laugh.  I still wonder though how long it's gonna be before I stop almost calling downstairs to ask my grandma for something or think to myself in a store 'I bet my grandma would love/hate _____'

Man, i'm going to miss coming home and seeing her..
But since this is xanga.. why not a photo post too... y'all get to see the hottness heh..


Enriqueta Service
July 15, 1923 - Aug 27th 2006

Rosary - Wed 8/30 7:30pm
Funeral Service Thurs 8/31 11:00am


My great grandmother and grandma (my great grandmother got to 101)


got a lil squished but that's my mom and grandma



since it's my xanga, you get a pic of me too

gotta prepare for the rosary tomorrow and the service on thursday in campbell.. maybe i'll post later if i find more good pictures

peace






Wednesday, March 15, 2006

Wha wha wha

Damn I hate Xanga-post drama

makes me want to quit reading this shit


Thursday, March 09, 2006

So that's why Judy and I get along

the Asserter
Test finished!
you chose AY - your Enneagram type is EIGHT.

"I must be strong"

Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.

How to Get Along with Me

  • Stand up for yourself... and me.
  • Be confident, strong, and direct.
  • Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.
  • Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side.
  • Give me space to be alone.
  • Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.
  • I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack.
  • When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that's just the way I am.

What I Like About Being a Eight

  • being independent and self-reliant
  • being able to take charge and meet challenges head on
  • being courageous, straightforward, and honest
  • getting all the enjoyment I can out of life
  • supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me
  • upholding just causes

What's Hard About Being a Eight

  • overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to
  • being restless and impatient with others' incompetence
  • sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it
  • never forgetting injuries or injustices
  • putting too much pressure on myself
  • getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go right

Eights as Children Often

  • are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit
  • are sometimes loners
  • seize control so they won't be controlled
  • fugure out others' weaknesses
  • attack verbally or physically when provoked
  • take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings

Eights as Parents

  • are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted
  • are sometimes overprotective
  • can be demanding, controlling, and rigid

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages


You liked the test? so please RATE it...
but remember! it had only two questions!!!






You are not completely happy with the result?!
You chose AY

Would you rather have chosen:

  • BY (FOUR)
  • CY (SIX)
  • AX (SEVEN)
  • AZ (THREE)



  • My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:
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    You scored higher than 69% on ABC
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    You scored higher than 53% on XYZ
    Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test


    Thursday, February 23, 2006

    ENFP -  "Journalist". Uncanny sense of the motivations of others. Life is an exciting drama. 8.1% of total population.
    Free Jung Personality Test (similar to Myers-Briggs/MBTI)


    Friday, February 17, 2006

    Johari must be spinning in his grave right about now

    So, stole this from aaron
    click here and tell me what you really think of me
    http://kevan.org/johari?name=drewmayen

    click on the link and stroke my ego.... c'mon stroke it......stroke it....now!

    man, didn't we do this @ LEADS? 





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